IS MONOGAMY GOING AWAY?

Is Monogamy Going Away?

16th Aug 2010

Monogamy?

For myself, I do extol the virtues of Monogamy as I see as a romantic, practical and egalitarian way of partaking of the healthy exchange of the giving and taking of all forms of relationships.

Due to mainstream global/cultural conditioning Monogamy does conjure up stronger and better the magickal feeling of becoming/belonging and being "Family" between two people who love each other.

Poly-amorous Tribalism can be beautiful in its own ways and it has a lot to offer for people who au natural are well-disposed to share everything in a group format which can promote fidelity, loyalty and exclusivity amongst its members and actually work out very well for all concerned...

It is not bad at all however it has never been appealing to me nor it has ever been a choice for me because I au natural have always been keen on the beautiful bonds of mutually, freely and willingly offered fidelity, loyalty, exclusivity between two people who really and truly love each other.

In our times...

People have been mad-go-looking for happiness in their exchanges with the world all around them however missing the very point that what makes everything worthwhile is Meaning.

And meaning is not easy because it is more than good sex, it is more than love, it is more than friendship and it is more than money and wealth.

Meaning is what makes each person real and true to themselves individually first! Meaning differs from person to person much like Value dances its changes in the many layers of knowing and not knowing which we all hold dear to us.
So in the end of the day...

You have to ask yourself "Whom am I and what do I value?"

But more so "What does it work for me and makes me content from inside out?" To each their own choices!

Is Monogamy, the "Monogamous way" per se going away?

For as long as there are Romantic people in this world who value the mutual gift of loyalty, exclusivity between each other as real lovers and friends...

Monogamy will be around... And by the way, doing just fine!

Love and Light,

 

Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon