MOTIVATIONS, OPINIONS & OTHER DISTRACTIONS
Motivations, Opinions &
Other Distractions - Revised
21stNov2010 - 04:56 pm
The thing about "Freedom" is the
obvious fact that "It" vanishes if/when without Wisdom to keep it alive and
benign.
It should not be to anybody's surprise that I wrote myself and
copyrighted back in 1983 - "Freedom with Wisdom is the Law".
The motivation
of human hearts can differ greatly chiefly when it comes to the subject of
Freedom, however we must remind ourselves of the simplicity and goodness of the
common dynamics of qualifying adjectives as bad and good in re of Intentions and
of course, the either benevolent / benign or bad / harmful disposition of one's
usage/employment of one's Freedom.
It is very easy to ignore the
deemed/judged Good Parts of anybody and to focus only upon the so-called Bad
Parts of anybody.
Nobody does anything without a reason, a motivation.
From friends, relatives, brothers, sisters, parents, children, daughters,
sons, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends and family in general - We All (not any
exceptions at all) - We all have our "Motivation", our "Reason" to think the way
we choose to think, our motivation to do what we choose to do and to be what we
choose to be.
At times, we all tend to convince our own selves that we do
know everything about those whom we hate or love and care for...
Regardless
of our individually formed opinions - Life goes on and nobody cares whether you
think this or that because the foundation of any issue lies upon the Value which
we place/bestow upon whatever it is at issue...
And such a Value will always
differ from person to person and equally from time to time because of
ever-changing dynamics of all related circumstances.
Some people are
embarrassingly "Stupid" enough to waste their lives mistakenly thinking that
their chosen covert and/or at times blatant overt collection of bad feelings,
old grudges, jealousy, envy and "Hatred" count and matter...
Well, the fact
is, They do not count nor matter for anybody at all!
Why?
Because as a
rule, everybody sort of knows that nobody really cares...
Most people are
strong, sane and wise enough to validate themselves individually first and
equally to value themselves and their own choices and personal opinions first
ergo there is never ever any room left for other people's intrusive, uninvited,
unwelcome rubbish and pontificating, "self-serving /s elfish" RUBBISH !
It is
always these self-elected Owners of the final truth and facts whose imaginary
pedestal of self-serving/selfish corrected-ness is their sole excuse to criticize
others and/or try to push away to others anything that they may perceive as
burdensome.
As if I or anybody else worthy of their personal sanity and
intelligence would waste our time to entertain infantile games that we are not
even remotely interested in nor give a damn about...
Then you have the
martyr and victim play of family twits - It goes something like this "It is
Always One idiot with the - "I am carrying this (proverbial) cross for you"
because blah, blah, etc...
Now it is your turn...
And/or you owe me because
blah, blah et ad nauseum...
Well, first of all, nobody asked you to carry
anything! Full Stop! Period! - I never did! So just drop it!
And then use
your time wisely and how about "Get a life" of your own!
Move on with your
life! Mind your own life, your own stuff!
Live a little and quit hatred
because it is harmful for you. LOL
And it is funny because it is always the
same predictable crap anywhere you go...
The sort of people who do this are
always the same sorry bunch of people - Usually people who had a bad infancy in
one way or the other and now that they are adults, they spend their time
projecting their anger, their mistrust, their criticisms onto anybody of who
happens to fit their mentally challenged agendas.
Because "You did not do
this or that... Or because "You were not there to help them do this or that"...
Somehow they always think that they are right... And of course you are
always "Wrong"!
- My answer to these people is always:
- To each, their own !!!
I have my life to live and I am not about to
allow some freaking critters to steal my peace and my time.
And it is always
"Power-Trippers", these so-called People who choose to conveniently to ignore
"The Mighty Circumstances" in re of whatever/whomever may be at issue...
-
Hey to me, they are not worth their point, their criticisms & accusations
nor my consideration nor attention as I do not waste my precious time with other
people's unnecessary and stupid rubbish...
Neither should you or anybody!
LOL
As a rule for myself, I always place "Circumstances" first because I am
humble enough and wise enough to acknowledge that human beings and all of the
affairs of this material world, they all depend upon "Circumstances" which can
"make them" or simply break and/or end them for life.
When people discard
and ignore the unavoidable Role of Circumstances and chiefly "Circumstances
Beyond Human Control", then it is quite clear that they are not functioning from
a position of wisdom, strength, integrity, fairness, truth and common sense.
People ignore Circumstances in order to justify their thinking, their
ill-informed formed opinions.
When people ignore the role of circumstances,
they are usually fools without a valid point because Circumstances count very
hard in every situation in life.
A fact that brings me to remind myself of
"Value" and Validation.
How can I or anybody else respect, value and/or
validate any self-serving opinion which fail to consider the Circumstances of
whatever/whomever may be in their assessment and final judgment.
Just watch
the political debates on television to get a whiff of the "I am good and you are
bad" and empty-of-meaning competitions, the sham analyses and the mental
exercises shift-shaped as commentary designed to fool primitive people who may
not understand the games.
- You control language, you control
information !!!
Do you consider Consistency when it comes to Meaning?
Yes, everybody is entitled to their own
"Opinions" but how about the proven facts as perceived by both sides of whatever
objectivity at issue however with all pertaining circumstances included/with
relevant context for reference?
Without the merits of taking into account
all the relevant Circumstances, the context of lateral meaning...
It always
remains unattainable to find the virtues of any criticisms.
People commonly
idealize the reality of whatever may be that they personally perceive as
convenient and serving/befitting to their best personal interests, purposes and
inclinations...
This horrendous socio - polico & equally religio
programmed / conditioned custom/habit to shun the facts or to sanitize them in
order to fit one's personal agenda of self-serving/selfish corrected-ness,
impositions upon others.
My reply is always - Hey, listen "Respect must be
earned" when it comes to people who self-appoint themselves as Owners of "What
you should do, know, feel and/or be!"
Respect must be earned first and never
freely offered/given without taking into account of the other person's
performance in re of the so-called Respect itself and all Considerations
thereof.
Anything, anybody and equally anything that We "human beings" have
invented/made-up/created, can go from being a blessing/a-good-thing to actually
being/becoming a curse/a-bad-thing.
It all depends upon our own Wisdom and
how we employ such in our lives and in our ways.
Perhaps the very first
mistake against Freedom is to deny our selves the fact that we and everything
are made out of "Changes".
Human beings commonly live their lives for
"Beginnings" however at the expense of attempting to forget, to neglect and to
deny "Endings"...
We are all made out of "Changes" and we all must pass ergo
if/when we are wise, we never deny ourselves, our very own "Nature" which is
really and truly "Change".
Freedom is a moment of bliss, Freedom is a lot
things to different people much like pleasure, happiness and contentment.
I
think it is the sacred duty of every human being to be brave to himself/herself
and to dare to grow up/to go out and beyond his/her own societal
programming/conditioning.
It is the duty of every human being to re-invent
himself/herself according to his/her own always-changing Personal Growth,
Progress, Awareness, Findings and Learning.
It is the sacred duty of
everybody to be and to stay "Real and True" to oneself.
In other words - To
remain honest to oneself !!!
To say a firm and absolute "No" to any people
and/or anything who may attempt to rob us from our own peace, honesty and
integrity to ourselves individually first.
Therefore, any life, the
so-called "Journey from cradle to grave" shall and will call us all - to get rid
of our childhood & adulthood Fears, also to take many proverbial walks on
the wild side of life however shielded/protected and guided by our Wisdom, our
Self-Respect, our Trust and Confidence upon ourselves individually... We all are
called by Life to invent and to create one's own Path, our own Ways, our own
Traditions, our own Belief System, our own
Codes of Value and Behaviour which
better reflect our hearts, our wishes, our personal evolution.
In life we
are always confronted with the choice of either Living our own Life according to
our hearts and truest wishes or simply Living our own Life according to other
people's idea of what our Life should be.
In my life, I have always chosen
to live my life according to my own heart and my truest wishes because in the
end, whatever I get to experience/feel/live is really what I get to take with me
in my own soul, in my being, chiefly after this temporary body is dead and this
lifetime is gone.
I
always aim at having no regrets. In order to do that I
do live the Now and Here as best as I can possibly can with all the choices
which Life allow me at this point in time.
Oddly enough however quite
understanding for anybody to realize that in fact "We are our own Freedom
ourselves"... But more so when we are humble enough to realize that what we are
made out...
There is no permanent place to stand on, there is nothing
permanent to hold on to and the best anybody can do is to let go of one's fears
and insecurities in order to fully embrace the permanent
"Change/Metamorphosis/Transformation" that we and everything really and truly
are.
Freedom calls for Wisdom...
Wisdom is made out of Knowledge put to
Experience plus a good and natural disposition to allow, to let the Universe,
the Muses, the Supreme Being, the Goddesses and Gods or whatever anybody may
call it - to inspire us to Greatness, to Goodness.
We all become a counting
part of the structure/foundation of that what we wish for before such is granted
to be/to materialize in our personal world.
Most people are too accommodated
and comfortably numb with their "Seeming", with putting on a show, keeping up
their comfortable appearances and the damn illusion of safety & security of
themselves and of their little or huge Assets/Properties, of their boring
routines and benighted ways.
The lame excuse of self-serving and ghastly
misinformed people blindly bent on looking for and inventing other people's
faults is always revealed for their fondness of focusing upon "Origins".
Origins are many...
It does not impress me nor fazes me in one or the
other.
So easy to be caught in the comfortable hide-out of corners as... "A
mind who wants to wander round a corner is an unwise mind"... as the late George
Harrison once wrote and sang...
From a perspective of Soul/Spirit, of
DNA/Quantum Genetics, of Nano Technologies and so forth... There are far more
real and true proven origins within each and every one of us than we ever
thought of.
As a matter of fact there many vast nano / quantum worlds inside
of each and everyone of us.
I always remind myself - As is Above - So is
equally Below ! ! !
Besides we all are Human Beings first and the rest... I
always remind people that we've made it all up to serve us and not to be served
by us which is the avenue of weak and foolish minds.
My place of birth, my
chosen family, my Mum, my Dad and equally my Brothers and Sisters, my true and
loyal Friends & Lovers are all very much sacred to me, I love them all
because my soul had chosen Them and trusted them to be good and worthy of being
a part of my experience in this present / on-going lifetime/time-zone.
Life is
not about Origins, Beginnings or Endings...
Life is not about the Future or
about the Past.
Life is not about Family, Friends and Rites of Passage.
Life is really and truly about what we can do here and now - I mean "Right
now!"
The "Here and Now" is all which any of us human beings truly have for
sure.
It is peaceful when we own our very own Selves!
When we own our
own hearts and each and every wishes...
Because it frees us to be Whom we
really and truly are at each and every moment and it makes Life Real.
I
prefer Love.
I prefer Peace.
I can never live my life for other people!
Hey, They already have their own lives to live for themselves...
And I do
respect and honour very much the "Role of Circumstances" in the world and in
everybody's lives because we all can make our plans and our so-called
opinions...
But circumstances will always make decisions and implement them in
world and in everybody's lives without asking anybody for their opinion,
permission or approval.
Be and live the "Here & Now" and try to make it
happy & great if you can.
Love
& Light,
Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon
