Destiny / Free-Will And Taking Charge Of One's Life...
To take charge of one's own Life is always so desirable and seemingly so honourable whether it is a wish and/or the action itself of attempting to do just that.
The fact is, what it always lies underneath such an attempt is the desire for Control.
To take charge of one's own Life is not all that easy as it may seem at first sight...
First of all, nobody is 100% in charge of/for anything nor anybody on Earth because in truth nobody on Earth can absolutely guarantee their very own next minute of Life let alone other people's and other matters larger than a single minute, LOL!
Yes, it is well-accepted that there are always the study of probabilities of whatever it will be and all of them based in the observation and collection of precedents relating to whatever it is at issue.
Still, we all as human beings, we can try and go for that what we intend to do, to have, to be...We all can attempt to go for that what we want to achieve.
Even the act of trying to go for what we wish may or may not be within our reach, it all depends upon the Circumstances.
In the end of the day if we really think about what we think that we can do and what we think that we cannot do for whatever temporary or permanent reasons, we will always find that it all depends upon the Circumstances again and again and again...
From the smallest and most simplistic feat/deed to the highest and greatest, we all run into the factors of Circumstances.
Logic/reasoning plus a study of all related precedents and well-informed calculation may assist us however none of that can defeat and win over Circumstances 100% anywhere and all of the time for anybody.
This fact appends itself to all wishes, to all desires, to
all goals, to all plans and to all actions of any kind, the unavoidable and provable factor of Circumstances and Her effects whether favourable or not, whether allowing what it is proposed or limiting and denying it.
So when I hear the simple-minded and yet well-meant assertion that we all are co-makers of our own Lives, that we are in charge of our own Destinies and that the outcomes of whatever it may be within our lives can be made to be successful...
I trust and believe that such is only true to certain extents.
Nobody is 100% in charge of anything nor anyone!
Temporarily at the other hand, we all are in charge of something and it is desirable that such could well be our own lives.
All and everything within time and space are temporary because all and everything do bow down to Changes except for Change Itself.
Changes are permanently infinite like our own Souls.
Still the rule of Change along with the variables of Circumstances beyond anybody's human controls are the rule that always wins the day in the end.
Why? Because nothing and nobody are ever complete, whatever achieved successes, they all are temporary.
Also nothing and nobody are ever perfect.
Everything and everybody are made out of changes and to support such everything and everybody are imperfect and incomplete, no exceptions of such ever existed that can be proven for posterity.
Yes, we all take charge of our lives every time we attempt to do anything that we consider meaningful to us individually.
Yet there are no guarantees that we are going to succeed every time that we try to do anything that we consider meaningful to us.
So the next time you hear "You are in charge of your Life" or "Take charge of your Life, you are a co-maker of your own Destiny" take your time to remember Circumstances and while you are at it do remember the virtues of being humble enough and equally wisely well-informed enough to realize it is all about the braving of Meaningful chances and also a reminder not to ever blaming our own selves for that what Life and Circumstances do not allow us to do, to have or/and to be.
Circumstances beyond our controls only obey choices and alternatives made by our souls individually/collectively before we were born, prenatal choices and all alternatives thereof only!
It pays the highest on whole Earth to take one's own
time to get to know oneself first, to learn oneself first
and to master oneself.
That is the only way that one will know one's own
belonging place in the scheme of all things above and below and within each and every part of what we call time and space.
Destiny to me is the sum of each person's pre-natal choices and all alternatives thereof as they are empowered by the elements/elementals in us and all around us and also implemented by all the Circumstances throughout the course of our brief or long chosen passages in the flesh and on Earth.
Therefore I trust and believe that all and everything that are allowed to be/to happen, do happen for a reason.
Nothing and nobody ever happen in vain, regardless of whether we can or cannot understand and/or reason such.
Free will is always ours before undertaking any lifetime and whatever parts thereof we choose to bring along with us when we are born, it is the extent of free-will that we will have for that lifetime.
Simple and to the point.
Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon
